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I give in. I’ll admit it: I miss the Latin passion and heat that you get by having an affair/relationship/whatever it is you have with L guys. That feeling like you just want to jump each others bones, but are refraining because you are in a public place/in the presence of kids/just not in the right place to do that kind of thing. That electricity that courses through you and between you as you exchange long languid glances that say it all, that “I want to undress you and have passionate sex with you right here, right now” look that makes the other person smirk and hide their face, for fear that someone looking may understand what salacious thoughts you have in mind.

I miss it all!!!!

I remember once walking into a guy’s apartment one evening, we were just going to chill out that evening, and he pecked me on the cheek, moved away slightly, looked at me, and came back for a full mouthed movie-like kiss. I swear I nearly swooned, as much as I hate how girly that sounds. From then on, you can guess what happened, as I missed the last bus back home around 1am and ended up sleeping over. It was also the night he chose to tell me he had a girlfriend but really liked me and didn’t know what to do, but that’s besides the point.

The point is, I miss the heat and passion! I want them back, dammit!

The other point is, I’ve never felt that with any non latin guys. Alright, once, but I was head-over-heels in love and we all know how that affects our libido et al, so it doesn’t count. Besides, it was something like 4 or 5 years back. It’s been mainly Italians and Latin Americans, with a high preponderence of Italians but, seeing as I was in Italy, that’s kinda normal, dontchathink?

Is it just me, or is this something that other people out there have witnessed? Am I just hanging with the wrong French guys for example? The mystery remains…